tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5384525667719730426.post5473969990530040991..comments2024-03-14T05:05:59.639-07:00Comments on For The Love Of Porn, Prostitution, and Pussy: What Psychology Has Taught Me About Love & SexAdvocateGrrrlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09567298562861217146noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5384525667719730426.post-64485117317924441342012-08-15T23:53:00.543-07:002012-08-15T23:53:00.543-07:00I like very much your way of presentation.. I got ...I like very much your way of presentation.. I got more useful information on this blog.. Thanks to sharing the useful information….<br /><br /><a href="http://www.nlpindia.net/psychotherapy-information.html" rel="nofollow">Psychology training</a>Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16949708073135461685noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5384525667719730426.post-53568075278606288432012-08-15T20:42:07.485-07:002012-08-15T20:42:07.485-07:00Haha I have also made that mistake! lol. thank you...Haha I have also made that mistake! lol. thank you :-) Glad you enjoy itAdvocateGrrrlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09567298562861217146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5384525667719730426.post-90916801801218101822012-08-15T20:20:00.002-07:002012-08-15T20:20:00.002-07:00Holy smokes you have some very talky commenters he...Holy smokes you have some very talky commenters here. Just wanted to say that I love the cognitive dissonance. Practice that one all the time by mistake. :-) Keep rockin' it Girl!Felicityhttp://www.risingsunhouse.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5384525667719730426.post-62724882451122704662012-08-15T07:30:33.200-07:002012-08-15T07:30:33.200-07:00It's not whether you are married or not. It c...It's not whether you are married or not. It comes down to life and the role you play in it. We are organisms with a sole purpose in life to reproduce. Back when humans were only living until our 30's a great emphasis was put on women to reproduce and because women did not have rights they were made to have one partner (Hence marriages). So when your parents are nagging you as to why you're not married yet, well, they are just going by social pressures of the past. <br /><br />In terms of a painful breakup: We tend to think of all the good times and forget why things got so bad that you had to break up. I myself went through one hell of a breakup four years ago and it took me forever to get over it but just one day driving I heard the song "Rain" by Breaking Benjamin and he had a lyric that said "Is it you I want, or just the notion of" and when I heard it everything clicked in my brain that "Did I really want this person anymore" and the answer was "No". I did not have to listen to another lyric or what the song meant because my heartache was finally over. No matter what, we may all share the same physical makeup of the brain (neurons, dendrites, axons, etc…) but we do not know how each person will react to certain circumstances in life. For me it took a lyric, For you… Well that is still an unwritten chapter… <br /><br />Rob ArdellAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5384525667719730426.post-51350180414492158922012-08-15T04:22:46.803-07:002012-08-15T04:22:46.803-07:00At least your smart enough to recognize what a dys...At least your smart enough to recognize what a dysfunction relationship is, and end them.<br />These are all learning experiences in life, and many women do not understand the lesson as fast as you.<br />It is a great skill, to be able to recognize these behaviors, and it takes courage to end them before things turn bad.<br />My step father has been a counselor for over 20 years and he is rational when it came to anything besides my mother, who suffers from a serve mental disorder, and even though every one of his colleague's told him to end the relationship as it was dysfunctional and abusive, he still stayed.<br />I think its wonderful that you have you educated yourself, and put that knowledge into action, and that is what I would describe is EMPOWERMENT.<br />Bella's final thoughts: MEN TREAT YOU HOW YOU ALLOW THEM TOO.BellaRobinsonnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5384525667719730426.post-3600608231360781512012-08-14T22:01:53.164-07:002012-08-14T22:01:53.164-07:00Carrie- thank you for that post. Although those we...Carrie- thank you for that post. Although those were things that I already knew (well, I think I knew them...know them....eh who the hell even knows anymore!) it's good to hear them from someone else. A large part of me knows that this is the truth- that it IS OK if a woman is not married by 30...40...50...OR EVER! Personally, I aspire to be much more than a man (or woman's) wife. However, the societal pressures can be difficult, especially when just coming off of a painful break up (as I am). I sometimes fear that I will be single forever, but then I take a deep breathe and try to be grateful for the hundreds of wonderful things in my life. For now (and maybe forever) that will have to be enough, and I hope that it is. I believe that one isn't ready to let somebody else into their life until they are fully content within themselves, while alone. I guess I am not there yet, so I will have to keep working on it!AdvocateGrrrlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09567298562861217146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5384525667719730426.post-65064966749630006252012-08-14T21:58:28.457-07:002012-08-14T21:58:28.457-07:00thanks! i was too! hahathanks! i was too! hahaAdvocateGrrrlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09567298562861217146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5384525667719730426.post-82051511573864526552012-08-14T20:03:01.876-07:002012-08-14T20:03:01.876-07:00In regards to your words, "Your family warns ...In regards to your words, "Your family warns you that if you spend another 34827637246 years in graduate school, you may never find a husband. Turns out, they may be right. Also turns out, I don’t give a shit," there is so much more to life than marriage. A lot of women seem to be in a rush to get married, & either settle for a jerk, or get married before their ready. I believe society is to blame because they have an unspoken rule that if a woman doesn't get married, she is a loser at life. But women can do so much more than just get married & have children. Don't get me wrong, getting married & having children is great, but this not the only purpose in life. By going to school, you are learning who you are & making something of yourself. It is better to know who you are before you get married. Also, I believe a woman can be beautiful at any age, if she puts effort into herself. Society tells women they should get married while they are young & beautiful, but in reality women should get married when they are ready, & know they're beautiful at any age. If someone gets married too young, it is very possible they could end up resenting their spouse. Great article Christina.Carriehttps://twitter.com/CarrieRae7noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5384525667719730426.post-32992226266056846902012-08-14T19:48:54.769-07:002012-08-14T19:48:54.769-07:00Great post, I was needing those lolz! :)Great post, I was needing those lolz! :)MI Chellenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5384525667719730426.post-32870303908681068682012-08-14T19:15:37.195-07:002012-08-14T19:15:37.195-07:00Haha thanks Jay- I knew you'd love this :) Fe...Haha thanks Jay- I knew you'd love this :) Feel free to share it! (shameless) AdvocateGrrrlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09567298562861217146noreply@blogger.com